It's the time of year when parents ask whether their four
year old will be ready for kindergarten in the fall. Most school districts have a cut-off birth
date somewhere between September 1 and December 31. That leaves a lot of room to wonder. As a September birthday, I have strong feelings about this. I didn't mind being the youngest in my class
until high school. Academically, I was
fine, but socially being the baby of the group was frustrating. I was the last of my friends to get my
license, get into rated R movies and turn 21.
Fortunately, I had a boyfriend to drive me places, get my movie tickets
and buy my drinks. If I'd been a boy, I
think it would have been much harder. I
distinctly remember the summer before I turned 21. All of my friends were legal, and I had just
returned from a semester in England ,
where the drinking age was 18. I would
routinely get messages like, "Hey, Kristin, we're all at Carpool, but it's
over 21 tonight. Maybe we'll see you
tomorrow."
Whatever you decide, the best way to prepare your child for
kindergarten is read to her everyday. The
kindergarten curriculum includes learning the alphabet and learning to count,
writing your name, and emergent reading skills.
Anything your child already knows, puts her ahead of the game.
In the end, I can't say I wish my mom had kept me back a
year. I had a wonderful school
experience, and I made great friends (many who shared their IDs with me.) And, now, as an adult, I like that all my
friends will turn 35 months before I do.
Great Books for Kindergarteners
Chicka Chicka Boom Boom by Bill Martin, Jr.
The Very Hungry Caterpillar by Eric Carle
Where the Wild Things Are by Maurice Sendak
Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad
Day by Judith Viorst
Corduroy by Don Freeman
Gossie by Olivier Dunrea
Do Crocs Kiss? by Salina
Yoon
Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs by Judi Barrett
If You Give a Mouse a Cookie by Laura Numeroff
The Cat in the Hat by Dr. Suess
Knuffle Bunny: A Cautionary Tale by Mo Willems